“办公室友谊”很危险!7条不成文法则,避免“交友不慎”!

2016-09-10 学生讲堂

  相信每个人都会有几个关系比较要好的同事

  你们下班后会一起去吃饭,逛街,看电影

  就算是已经不在一起工作了

  却依旧保持着联系

  恭喜你!

  拥有一份“办公室友谊”

  这份情谊会让你上班的时间不那么无聊

  但若这种关系“处理不当”

  很有可能会对你造成巨大的损失!

  下面这7条不成文“法则”你注意到了吗?

  Beware oversharing

  小心过度分享

  

“办公室友谊”很危险!7条不成文法则,避免“交友不慎”!1

  Share with caution. Take the time to get to know your co-workers a bit before divulging personal information and stay appropriate and professional even with those you trust. Have clear boundaries about what is “shareable” and what is not. Family updates, hobbies, interests, educational pursuits, etc. are all fair game. Illegal activities, intimate details, and “resume exaggerations,” not so much.

  与他人分享时要小心。透露个人信息之前,先花些时间了解你的同事,即便是对那些你信任的人也要保持适当和专业的态度。对于什么是“可以分享的”什么不可以,要有清楚的界定。家庭近况、兴趣爱好、教育追求等等是可以透露的。而违法行为、私密细节和简历中的夸大成分就不必多说了。

  Nix the complaining

  别向同事抱怨

  

“办公室友谊”很危险!7条不成文法则,避免“交友不慎”!2

  No matter how well you know your “office friend”, don’t gossip or complain about your boss. That’s a big NO-NO. It puts your office friend in a very uncomfortable situation and could be potentially damaging if your words ever reached the ears of the wrong person. Save your venting for your other personal friends outside of work.

  不管你有多了解你的“办公室朋友”,都不要跟他/她八卦或者抱怨你们的老板。这是决不能做的。这会让你的办公室朋友感到十分不安,如果你的话传到不该听到的人的耳朵里,后果可能很严重。抱怨的话还是对工作圈以外的朋友说吧。

  Maintain individuality

  保持个体性

  

“办公室友谊”很危险!7条不成文法则,避免“交友不慎”!3

  Be careful that your office friendships don’t obscure your individual accomplishments and separateness. You still need to build and protect your individual reputation on the job. Especially in the beginning of your career, you need to shine and stand out from the crowd. Office alliances are part of the work culture, that’s fine, just don’t let your own contributions become overshadowed.

  小心别让你的办公室友谊掩盖了你个人的能力和独立性。你依然需要建立和维护你在工作上的个人声誉,尤其是在职业生涯的起步阶段,你需要从人群中脱颖而出。办公室联盟是工作文化的一部分,这没什么,只是别因此掩盖了你个人的贡献。

  Watch the gossip

  小心八卦

  

“办公室友谊”很危险!7条不成文法则,避免“交友不慎”!4

  It’s natural and normal for people to show an interest in what other people do and say. It’s not necessarily all bad providing it isn’t malicious, but be careful. Gossip can cause hurt feelings and stir up trouble and office drama create enemies that you don’t need or want. Do not be the “office gossip.”

  人们对他人的言行感兴趣是很自然也是很正常的。只要不是恶语相向,八卦也并非都那么糟糕。但是要小心。八卦可能会让人受到伤害,引起麻烦。而办公室的闹剧会给你惹来你不需要更不想要的敌人。不要做办公室的“大嘴巴”

  Don’t play favorites

  不要厚此薄彼

  

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  Try to collaborate with and get to know other co-workers, so that they don’t feel excluded. It’s nice to have a friend in the office, but don’t play favorites. Be very clear that you will not show preference or extend special favors, nor will you cover up mistakes or dishonest behavior and that you do not expect it in return. Remember that when you’re at work, you’re working.

  试着和同事合作,并且去了解他们,这样他们就不会觉得受到排挤。在办公室有一个朋友是好事,但也不要厚此薄彼。你要清楚,你不能表现出倾向或者偏爱,也不应该帮别人掩盖错误或者不诚实的行为,虽然你也不期待他人以此作为回报。记住你是在工作!

  Diversify friendships

  让友谊多样化

  

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  Many of us spend the majority of time at work, it’s true. And the common interests and dilemmas we share with our office friends may draw us together, but having a circle of friends outside of work is important as well. We need to turn off our “work brain” and separate ourselves from work regularly to keep stress at bay. It also helps us to cultivate a variety of friends, broaden our circle of support and keep our lives full and interesting.

  我们许多人把主要时间都花在了工作上,这是事实。我们和办公室朋友们共同的利益和困境把我们聚在一起,但有一个工作之外的朋友圈也非常重要。我们偶尔也需要关闭“工作头脑”,把自己从工作中解放出来,缓解一下压力。这还有助于帮我们培养各种朋友,扩大我们的朋友圈,让我们的生活丰富而有趣。

  Navigate office “breakups” professionally

  以职业态度处理破裂的办公室友谊

  

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  It’s inevitable that for whatever reason, some office friendships, like any other, won’t last. When it happens, and it will, it’s imperative to remain professional. Be polite and courteous ALWAYS. No matter what has transpired, do not gripe and complain about your ex-friend to other workers. Stay professional and focus on doing your job. Don’t feed office drama. You’ll save yourself a lot of stress as well as demonstrate that you can handle conflict professionally.

  总有一些办公室友谊会因为某些原因无法长久,这是不可避免的。如果事情发生了,就需要以职业的态度去处理。永远要保持彬彬有礼。不论发生了什么,绝不要和其他的同事去抱怨你之前的朋友。保持职业的态度,专注于你的工作,别给办公室好戏添油加料。这样你的压力会小很多,而且会证明你可以以职业态度处理矛盾。

  所以

  办公室友谊有风险

  交友需谨慎

  不要让这份“情谊”

  带给你不必要的麻烦

  SO

  Work Hard

  Study Hard

  Play Hard

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